You may call yourself a blogger, but are you really a blogger? Bloggers have a habit of writing and publishing posts. They are writers, and writers blogging books produce both posts and manuscripts consistently. Do you do that? Do you write every day?
Writers write.
Be honest.
Are you a writer…and a blogger?
Or do you like to call yourself a writer when, in fact, you write sometimes…rarely…when you feel like it…or hardly ever? Or perhaps you call yourself a blogger but blog sporadically…when you have time…feel motivated…realize you haven’t published anything in months.
Writers write. Bloggers are writers, too, and have a writing habit.
So, let’s talk about how to develop a writing habit and really, truly be a writer.
How to Become a Writer
To become a writer, you must first be a writer.
I realize that may sound like the chicken before the egg. And you are probably thinking, “If I write, then I’ll be a writer.”
In fact, when you decide to be a writer, you will write. Why? Because that’s what writers do.
When you decide to be a blogger, you will write and publish posts. Maybe you’ll even blog a book.
No…I’m not taking you in circles. I’m talking about identity because identity leads to action.
Be a Writer (and Blogger) First
Most aspiring writers think having a career as an author, blogger, or journalist requires writing skill, time, or a great idea. When they have one or more of these things, they will write, and eventually, become writers.
In other words, they must first have something so they can do something and then be something. That’s backward.
The more effective method is to first be something—in this case, be a writer. When you adopt the identity of “writer,” you will do what a writer does—write habitually. And then you will have a career as a writer. (You’ll also have time to write, develop skills, and lots of ideas.)
The same goes for blogging. Be a blogger. Adopt that identity and you will do what bloggers do—write and publish posts habitually. Then you will have a career as a blogger.
Identity leads to action—even writing daily or publishing posts weekly. In the process of doing what a writer does, you create results—written work.
Doing Before Being
It is possible to do first. You can start writing consistently, develop the habit, and then feel like and call yourself a writer. I have had clients do this.
I recall one woman declaring, “I’m a writer!” Previously, she had insisted she was not a writer and had struggled to write consistently.
“What’s changed?” I asked.
“I am writing daily. You always told me that writers write. Now I write, so I’m a writer!”
Indeed, she was…for a while. And then she stopped.
Her identity as a writer was tied to the action or doing of being a writer. Had she worked from identity first—“I’m a writer.”—she would have continued writing every day.
Why? Because that’s what writers do. As a writer, she would write.
I’m NOT a Writer
I’ve considered myself a writer since I was in middle school…maybe earlier. I pursued writing as a career and am known for saying, “Even though I’m a coach and speaker, I’m a writer first.”
But last year, I had to be honest with myself. I was no longer a writer. My identity had shifted to coach and online business owner, and my actions had followed suit. I mostly spent my time coaching, marketing my business, and figuring out how to make money from my courses and programs.
Other than my blog posts, which I deemed required writing, I wasn’t writing. The book ideas I so wanted to pursue remained ideas—lightbulbs glowing dimmer with each passing month.
I realized that the only way to develop a writing habit again was to change my identity back to “writer.”
Once I decided to be a writer, there was no question about what I had to do every day. I had to do what writers do…write.
So I blocked off time in the mornings for writing. Clients could not schedule appointments at this time, and I didn’t schedule other things during this time either.
Each day, after my morning routine, I sat down to write. Specifically, I worked on a book project.
After all, that’s what successful and prolific writers do…they write daily at the same time no matter what. They have a writing habit.
I also began approaching my blog posts differently. I didn’t see them as just required writing. I considered them another opportunity to write…and publish…my work. As such, they felt less like a chore and more on purpose and joyful. Additionally, I was able to get back to writing them to be of service to my readers.
I counted the words I wrote for a manuscript and blog posts in my daily word count. This affirmed that I was, indeed, writing every single day.
Choose Your Identity
The key to developing a writing or blogging habit lies in your identity. And you can choose your identity. If you want a writing habit, select the identity of a writer—or even an author. Then show up daily doing the things a writer would do.
If you want a blogging habit, select the identity of a blogger–and even an author (if you plan to blog a book). Then show up daily doing the things a blogger would do.
Apply the Be-Do-Have strategy to writing and blogging habit development rather than the Have-Do-Be strategy, which, as I explained, makes it harder to develop and maintain any habit.
I teach members of the Inspired Creator Community this strategy. It’s amazing to watch how quickly they go from aspiring writers and bloggers to actual writers and bloggers. Before they know it, they have a writing or blogging habit, and they continue it long term.
Develop Your Writer and Blogger Identities and Habits
Here are five steps you can take to cement your writer and blogger identities and the related habits.
- Write a description of a writer, blogger, or author. Include information on their mindset, daily activities, schedule, commitments, character, values, and life in general.
- List the writing-related activities of a writer, blogger, or author. These might not all involve writing but could include speaking, platform building, or revising.
- Now, take this information and turn it into a description of your new identity. You can even call this your alter ego and give it a name. Be sure to include the same sort of information you included in steps 1 and 2 above. Pay particular attention to the daily writing-related activities.
- Decide right now that when you wake up tomorrow, you will embody your new identity. As a result, you will do the things you described—including writing and blogging.
- Repeat the doing part of being a writer or blogger consistently.
If you take these five steps and repeat steps 4 and 5 every day, you will soon have a writing or blogging habit. And you’ll show up daily as a writer or blogger…or both.
Don’t Fall Back Into Old Habits
Your mind will try to keep you stuck where you are—not writing or blogging consistently. It will give you tons of reasons to continue not being who you want to be.
If you listen to that voice in your head, you will quickly fall back into your old habits of not writing or blogging. Or you may never leave those habits behind.
But you can stop listening to that voice that says, “Write tomorrow” or “You don’t have time to publish a post today.” (Or whatever else that voice tells you.) You can dismiss it and write.
How? When you notice the voice telling you not to write today…when you feel that urge to be complacent, distracted, lazy, or to prioritize something else over blogging…stop. Then take a deep breath, and say to yourself or aloud, “I am a writer. Writers write. I am a blogger. Bloggers write and publish posts.”
Then, move your attention to your writing or blogging project. Think about what you plan to write or your fantastic book, article, or blog post idea.
Finally, sit down at your computer and write.
Be a writer and blogger. Every. Single. Day. If you do, you’ll have a writing and blogging habit in no time.
Do you have a writing and blogging habit? How did you develop it? Tell me in a comment below, and please share this post with someone who would really love to write consistently.
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