Bloggers often embark on their journeys with great clarity about the direction they want to sail. Feeling like the captains of their blogging ships, they know what topics they want to cover and where they want their career to land. Later, that clarity may wane, though, and their ships may drift off course.
Losing your blogging career direction can happen in a variety of ways. You may mold your writing goals to meet your income needs. Or, a literary agent, magazine editor, or client asks you to write about a different topic, and, before you realize it, that subject is the focus of your body of work. Perhaps, you get the chance to write guest posts for another site (instead of your own) or website copy (instead of prescriptive nonfiction books). Years later, you discover you are docked in a very different port than the one toward which you set sail.
Somewhere along the way, you took your hands off the helm. You gave control to someone else or allowed your boats to drift with the tide.
You Can Lose Control of Your Career
You may think this will never happen to you. But it’s easier than you think to lose control of your blogging and writing career and end up off course.
Believe me… I know from first-hand experience.
I lost sight of my writing destination. I stopped navigating my ship. And, as a result, I ended up far from the writing life I dreamed of living, docked in a writing career I did not plan.
For a long time, I blamed others—my agent, editors, even my husband—for the fact that my career was off course. However, that did not empower me to take control of my career. Instead, it disempowered me.
Ultimately, I had to take responsibility and acknowledge that I had made all my career choices—no one else. By giving up victimhood, I allowed myself to choose differently and take back the helm. I regained my status as captain of my blogging and writing ship.
How I Got Off Course
Let me explain how I got so far off course. In the beginning, I wanted to write. Period.
In high school, I wanted to be a novelist, but my mother dissuaded me from this career choice. Instead, I got a degree in magazine journalism. However, initially, I did more editing than writing magazine articles.
I went on to write and edit for a variety of businesses because it was profitable. I also did some freelance writing—articles, television parade scripts, advertising copy, newsletters, and the like. Then, after being asked to edit a book, I became a book editor.
After several years of editing books, I decided to write one of my own. I had an idea for a spiritual prescriptive nonfiction book. I found a literary agent to represent me and the book. A few months later, she directed me to write books on nonfiction writing and publishing. Before I knew it, I’d written three traditionally published and nine self-published writing guides.
And the blogs? At one time I had five of them, but only one focused on personal and spiritual growth. I narrowed it down to two for a while…one related to writing and the other (this one) to blogging.
What about the spiritual books I set out to write? They remained unpublished almost a decade later. And the magazine articles? They fell by the wayside. Even the manuscript for a novel remained unedited or published.
How did this happen?
I let my desire to get traditionally published sway my decisions. I allowed myself to be influenced by those who seemingly knew more than I about developing a successful career as an author.
I also allowed pressure to earn a more significant income to determine how much time I spent writing. As a result, I built a business around my books that gave me little time to write.
Why You’ve Lost Passion for Your Writing Projects
Some writers don’t care what they write or blog about as long as they are writing and getting paid for their work. Others care…a lot. If you are the latter type and feel off track, it’s time to put your hands on the wheel…fast!
The longer you remain off course or adrift, the greater the likelihood you will lose your passion for writing and blogging. Eventually, you will find writing a chore. The joy you used to feel when you put pen to paper (or hands to keyboard) will be gone.
That’s when the writing and blogging starts feeling hard, unfulfilling, and like a “should do” rather than a “want to do.”
Again, I know this well. But you can retake control of your writing and blogging career. You can put on your captain’s hat, get out your eyeglass and compass, and plot a new course.
Take Control of Your Writing and Blogging Career
If your writing or blogging career has gotten off track, decide where you want to go now. (The destination might be different than when you began your journey.) Check the map, set sail, and navigate the boat to your chosen destination.
Don’t waste time blaming anyone or anything for where you find yourself now. That’s easy to do, but it isn’t how you take back the helm. In fact, blame and the victim mentality that goes with it give your control away.
The way to captain your ship is to do something more challenging: take responsibility. Admit that you gave up the wheel or allowed the boat to drift. That’s how you ended up where you are now. You chose to have the writing and blogging career you’ve had or have to date.
The good news is that you can take control of your writing ship! Put your hands on the helm. Be responsible for getting to a destination of your choosing.
In less nautical terms, decide what to write about, for whom, and when. Then take the necessary steps to accomplish your goals.
Make New Writing Career Choices
As I write this, we are in the third quarter of 2021. This is a great time to rethink your writing and blogging career and make new choices. (Actually, any time you find yourself off course is a good time to rethink your career.) In fact, decisions put you in control.
If you aren’t sure what choices you made in the past, look at your writing life and career. You will see the choices you made right in front of you. The topics about which you wrote, the income you created, the incomplete and complete writing projects—all of these are a result of your past choices. Take responsibility for them.
If you don’t like what you see, make a different choice. That’s how you create some new results going forward.
What are your writing goals and dreams now? Once you have decided on or re-clarified what you want, consider what choices will lead to creating that career.
Here are some questions to help you make choices that help you take control of your writing career:
- Do you want to write a book or write for clients?
- Do you want to write for your own blog (or blog a book) or get paid to write for blog sites?
- Do you want to work on your author platform or produce “Morning Pages”?
- Who do you want to “be” as a writer?
- What do you want to write about?
- What do you want to do to move your career forward?
- What habits do you want to develop to help you achieve your writing goals?
- Do you want to be a blogger or an author or both?
Level Up Your Inspiration, Motivation, and Creativity
When you take control of your writing and blogging career and get it back on track, you will find yourself feeling more inspired, motivated, and creative. Writing on topics that interest you, developing meaningful projects, and revolving your writing projects around your passion and purpose provides the wind to fill your ship’s sails. Then it is much easier to navigate your boat toward a port of your choice.
You will discover the joy of writing and blogging again. Words will flow to you easily. You’ll also create more-desirable results and move toward your destination faster.
If you are ready to write and blog about topics that matter to you and embark on a writing journey that ends in your dream location, take control of your career. Chart a new course. Pick up the anchor, put your hands on the wheel, and set sail.
If your writing or blogging career has gotten off course, how you will navigate toward the destination you really desire?Tell me in a comment below. And please share this post with another writer.